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What is authority

Authority (from Latin "auctoritas", from "augere": to grow, to increase, to elevate)

Authority is the ability to guide, lead and decide without needing to impose by force. It is not command. It is not domination. It is not arrogance.

Authority is power that others recognize, not power that is endured.

The two forms of authority

1. Imposed authority (the power of the tyrant)

It is that of those who command because they have rank, law, force. It does not need your consent. It compels you. Examples: the politician who decides without consulting you, the bureaucrat who denies you a right, the boss who blackmails you with work. This is not true authority. It is domination. It is based on fear, not on respect.

2. Recognized authority (the power of the sovereign)

It is that of those who decide because they are competent, fair, authoritative. It imposes nothing. It convinces, guides, inspires. Examples: the doctor who explains the treatment and respects your choice, the teacher who teaches you to think, the citizen who proposes a solution and discusses it with others. This is true authority. It is based on consent, not on force.

The authority of the sovereign citizen

In the Community of Sovereigns, every citizen is an authority. Why?

  • They are the origin of power. They do not receive it from anyone. They do not have to ask for it.
  • They have the right to decide. About their life, their body, their work, their home.
  • They have the right to participate. Every public decision concerns them. Therefore they must be able to have their say.
  • They have responsibility. If they decide, they answer for their decisions.

The authority of the sovereign is not imposed. It is exercised. It is not arrogance. It is dignity. It is not arrogance. It is awareness. It is not isolation. It is participation.

The subject asks: "May I?". The sovereign says: "I decide".
The subject endures authority. The sovereign is authority.

1. The fact

Think of the last time you dealt with a public office, a bank, a boss, a doctor, a teacher, a bureaucrat.

For a registered letter they made you wait for an hour before seeing you, and not in private, but there in front of a bulletproof glass, surrounded by others like you waiting their turn.

They treated you like a criminal, like an inferior being.

You asked for explanations but they replied that first you had to pay everything immediately.

What a beautiful day!

How did you feel?

  • Like a nobody?
  • Like a powerless person?
  • Did you lower your gaze?
  • Did you accept a "no" without arguing because it would have been useless anyway?

If yes, you felt like a subject. Not because you are inferior. But because they taught you to be one.

They taught you that authority is elsewhere. That power belongs to someone else. That you must only obey, wait, hope and above all pay.

This is the lie. In the Community of Sovereigns, you are the authority. Because you are the origin of power. You do not receive it from anyone. You do not have to ask anyone for it. It belongs to you from birth.

2. The mirror of powerlessness (Today)

How do you behave today?

You ask for permission.

"Excuse me, may I...?" "Would it be possible...?" "If it is not too much trouble..."

You justify yourself.

"Sorry to bother you..." "I know this is not the right time..." "Maybe this is a stupid question..."

You accept refusal.

If they say "no", you leave. You do not ask for explanations. You do not demand alternatives.

You delegate.

If there is a problem, you call someone else. You do not try to solve it yourself.

You complain.

Afterwards, with friends, at the bar. But not in front of those who decide.

Result: You are treated like a subject. Because you behave like a subject. It is not your fault: it is the result of years of training. But now you can change.

3. The mirror of power (Community of Sovereigns)

How would you behave as a sovereign?

In the Community of Sovereigns, there are no offices to ask permission from. There are services that work for you. The bureaucrat does not exist. There is no master: there is a sovereign citizen like you whose job is to help you solve a problem and will do everything possible to solve it. The doctor is not an authority who decides about your life: they are an advisor who informs you.

You ask for an appointment.

When it is your turn, you enter an office, close the door behind you, sit down, explain your problem, demand a solution. With respect, but without fear.

You do not justify yourself.

Your request is not a disturbance. It is a right. And whoever is behind the desk must answer.

You do not accept refusal.

If something does not work, you ask for explanations. You propose alternatives. You do not leave until you have an answer.

You do not delegate.

If there is a problem, you solve it. You have the tools, the knowledge, the authority.

You do not complain.

You propose. You bring solutions. You build.

Result: You are treated like a sovereign. Because you behave like a sovereign.

4. The comparison

SUBJECT (Today) SOVEREIGN (Community of Sovereigns)
Asks for permission Decides
Justifies themselves States their right
Accepts refusal Demands explanations
Delegates Governs
Complains Proposes
Lowers their gaze Looks in the eyes
Waits Acts
Is afraid Has authority

5. The verification

Exercise: "The Authority Test"

  1. Think of the last time you asked permission for something that was your right. What did you feel?
  2. Why did you ask permission instead of demanding what was yours?
  3. If they said "no" without explanations, what would you do today?
  4. What would you do as a sovereign?
  5. What is the difference between being arrogant and being authoritative?
  6. How can you start, from tomorrow, to behave like a sovereign?

6. The two voices

👶 Pino Fear says:

  • "I cannot. I have no power."
  • "If I ask too much, they will kick me out."
  • "Better not to make noise."
  • "There is always someone more important than me."
  • "I count for nothing."

🌟 Sole Sovereign says:

  • "I am the origin of power."
  • "I have the right to an answer."
  • "My voice counts as much as anyone else's."
  • "I do not ask permission: I act."
  • "I am an authority."

7. Deepen! Read the book

  • Chapter 9: The Community of Sovereigns (the single-story building)
  • Chapter 10: Personal Sovereignty (power over oneself, power to do, power to decide together)
  • Chapter 24: Sovereign Consent (how to decide without delegating)